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The Desire Lab

Mismatched desire? You’re not broken—and neither is your relationship!

Desire differences are one of the most common struggles couples face, but that doesn’t make them any less painful.

You want to want- or to feel wanted… but you don’t

Struggling with low or mismatched desire can feel incredibly isolating, especially in a culture that treats sex like a measure of love or worth. But here’s the truth: desire differences are common, complex, and totally normal. This isn’t about fixing what’s broken—it’s about discovering what works for you.

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Do you want to Find Your Way Back to connection and passion- together?

The Desire Lab is a couples coaching program where science-based tools meet compassionate, personalized support. Through a mix of joint sessions and individual coaching, you’ll learn how to navigate desire differences, reconnect with your own erotic self, and rebuild intimacy as a team. Using research-backed practices like mindfulness and relational tools, we’ll help you move beyond blame, reduce shame, and create space for honest conversations about sex and desire.

This is your invitation to reignite passion on your own terms—in a supportive, judgment-free space where both partners feel seen and empowered.

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Imagine a Relationship Where Desire Feels natural and alive.

  • Rediscover your desire through practical, mindfulness-based techniques

  • Connect with yourself and your partner

  • Communicate openly with your partner about your needs and experiences

  • Learn self-compassion and build a healthy relationship with desire

  • Feel empowered and supported as you explore your own desires

  • The Desire Lab is a coaching program for couples and individuals who are struggling with mismatched or low desire. It’s designed to help you better understand your own desire patterns, stop the blame cycle, and rebuild intimacy in your relationship.

    Through a combination of couples sessions, individual coaching, you’ll get science-backed tools, guided conversations, and compassionate support to help you navigate desire differences with more clarity, confidence, and connection.

    Whether you’re the partner who wants more, the partner who wants less, or not even sure what you want anymore—The Desire Lab is here to help you find your way forward.

  • What Support Is Included in The Desire Lab?

    When you join The Desire Lab, you’ll get a mix of personalized support designed to help you make real, lasting changes in your relationship and sex life:

    • Couples Sessions – Deepen your connection and work through desire differences together with guided, evidence-based conversations.

    • 1:1 Coaching – Get individual support to explore your own relationship with desire, unpack blocks, and reconnect with your erotic self.

    • Unlimited Voxer Access – Need support in the moment? You’ll have unlimited voice/text access to Rebecca Monday through Thursday from 8am–2pm for real-time coaching between sessions.

    This program is designed to meet you where you are—whether you’re in crisis or simply feeling stuck. You don’t have to figure this out alone.

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  • How Much:

    $325 per 60 minute session

  • How Often:

  • How Long:

    Each session is typically 6-12 weeks

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Ready to reignite your passion? Join The Desire Lab Today