Dr. Rebecca Howard Eudy
Find Your spark, reignite desire.
Sex Therapist, Relationship Coach & Author of Parents In Love: A Guide to Great Sex After Kids
The spark doesn't have to die when kids arrive.
Parenting brings profound joy—and profound challenges to your relationship. If sex feels like just another item on your endless to-do list, you're not alone.
Stop feeling like roommates. Start feeling like lovers again.
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Let’s face it,
Parenting Is Hard! Desire Doesn’t Have to Be…
Juggling kids, work, and endless to-do lists can make sex feel like just another chore. Many couples face desire differences after kids, often leaving one partner feeling "broken" or at fault and the other sex starved and frustrated. But the truth is, desire is complex—and it’s about understanding and navigating these changes together, not placing blame. I help couples:
Understand the science of desire: Why it shifts & how to nurture it.
Bridge differences: Find balance without guilt or pressure.
Build lasting intimacy: Even in the chaos of family life.
It’s time to rewrite the narrative, prioritize your pleasure, and build a sex life that feels vibrant, even in the busiest seasons of life.
I'm Rebecca
Sex & Couples Therapist, author, Coach, Wife, Mother, human
SERVICES
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Relationship Coaching
Relationship Coaching is designed to help you gain the tools to maintain a vibrant relationship while raising kids. Let’s face it—relationships are hard, parenting is HARD, and balancing both can feel impossible. This coaching program offers practical tools and compassionate support to help you reconnect as partners amidst the chaos of parenting. You don’t have to choose between being great parents and a great couple—you can have both.
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The Desire Lab
The Desire Lab is a coaching program for individuals and couples navigating desire differences. Whether you're feeling stuck in mismatched desire or disconnected from your own, you’ll learn how to reclaim your sex life without blame or shame. Through a mix of individual and couples sessions, we’ll use science-based tools and compassionate guidance to explore the roots of low or uneven desire. This is a space to reignite passion, reconnect with yourself and your partner, and strengthen your relationship with honesty and care.
